“Am I suffering from depression?” That was a question that I almost didn’t dare ask myself, because I too afraid the answer may be “yes”. After a quick search on google on symptoms of depression I found that I had almost all of them, yet I didn’t want to believe it. I just told myself that I didn’t have any reason to be depressed, others have it so much worse and I didn’t suffer that much from the symptoms, I’m just exaggerating, I’m fine.. I’m okay. (Symptoms of depression will be at the end of this post).
So I was quite surprised when my psychologist wanted to send me to a course on how to handle depression. I had only been there a few times, and she promised me that as long as I wanted to go, there would be a spot open for me. There were only a few spots open on the course so the fact that I could be promised a spot had to mean that I was really in deep.
After only a couple of times on the course I understood that I was not okay, not even close. But as I understood that was already in the helping hands of my psychologist and the whole group that took the course with me. I was so lucky to have those people close to me; it’s something that I will be forever grateful for.
Before and after the course I took a test to see if I was depressed. It was just a simple multiple choice test, but I still lied on a few of the questions because I didn’t want to seem so “sad”. I didn’t get to see outcome of the test until the end of the course, and I was really surprised over what it told me. I had over the first month of the course understood that I was suffering from depression, but that I was in the highest, most severe part of the scale, shocked me. That was from before the course, at the end of it I was at the very end, the lowest of the low of the scale. I had almost completely defeated my depression.
This is all very much about me, and my story, but I do have a point to all of this. Depression is very common; a lot of people experience it through smaller or bigger parts of their life. If you can say that you have suffered from several of the symptoms, than it doesn’t matter how severe it is or if you think you have a reason to be depressed or not, it’s reason enough to do something about it. And if you do find out that you suffer from depression, than try not to freak out (like I did), you are never as alone as you think you are. The same kind of amazing people that helped me are out there for everyone, you just have to find the courage to ask for help. And when I say “just” I do not use that lightly, I do know how hard it is to actually ask for help, but remember that it’s out there for you.
Quote of the day:
“Because we are only sparks, but together burning bright”
Song of the day:
Together burning bright – The Used
Depression symptoms: (http://www.helpguide.org/mental/depression_signs_types_diagnosis_treatment.htm)
If you identify with several of the following signs and symptoms, and they just won’t go away, you may be suffering from clinical depression.
- you can’t sleep or you sleep too much
- you can’t concentrate or find that previously easy tasks are now difficult
- you feel hopeless and helpless
- you can’t control your negative thoughts, no matter how much you try
- you have lost your appetite or you can’t stop eating
- you are much more irritable, short-tempered, or aggressive than usual
- you’re consuming more alcohol than normal or engaging in other reckless behavior
- you have thoughts that life is not worth living (seek help immediatelyif this is the case)